Saturday, 22 September 2007

what drives ur life??

everyone's life is driven by something..so...what's urs???


right now,you and i may be driven by a problem, a pressure, or a deadline~!!lolzZz..!!perhaps,you may be driven by a painful memory, a haunting fear or unconscious belief..!!anyway..,there are several things that can drive your life..
first of all,many people are driven by guilt..!!people spending their entire lives running for regrets and hiding their shame..and allowing their past to control their future..most people today wandering through life without a purpose..~!!secondly,many people driven by resentment and anger..!!most of us hold on to hurts and never get over them..``!!resentment always hurts you more than it does the person you resent..!! "-those who have hurt you in the past cannot continue to hurt you now unless you hold on the pain through resentment``!!your past is past!! nothing will change it..!!you only hurting youeself with your bitterness..!!so, for your own sake,learn from it, and then let it go :) ``!!-"
next, many people are driven by fear..``!!fears may be result in many ways..~regardless of the cause, fear-driven people often miss great opportunities because they afraid to venture out``!!instead of playing safe,people avoiding risks and trying to maintain the status quo..!!
many people are driven by materialism..~~!!their desire to acquire becomes the whole goal of their lives.!!this drive to always want more is based on the misconceptions that have more will make yourself more happy,more important,and more secure, but all 3 ideas are untrue!!!possessions only provide temporary happiness...!!things do not change always,and we eventually become bored with them and then want newer,bigger,better versions...!!
lastly,many people are driven by the need for approval..!!people who are driven by peer pressure, always worried by what others might think..!!those who follow the crowd usually get lost in it..!!

well,this probably taken out from "the purpose driven life"..and it's useful for everyone in our lifes..!!esp for those who needs it..!!cant avoid to admit that these had taught me a lot..!!or even more than that``!!

anyway,what drives ur life??think about it``!!

Wednesday, 12 September 2007

congrates..

something joyous is happening~
just got the news that my secondnary school's choir won the champion in Kuala Terengganu last week~!! thumbs up to my juniors~~
lolz.. and congratulation to all``~!!
of cause..to my friend, Desmond, who had been the conductor for the choir team..
u are great!!!
our team, again win for the champion after my year in 2005..and i knew last year the choir team had lost in the competition...
how sad i couldn't have to take a visit there and watch the competition.. the team must be good enough..
owwwwwhhhhh..i miss choir..
well..singing is part of my favaourite..
i bet Ms. Maria and Ms. Jenny were happy~ and of course having celebration some other time at the end of the year..!!
hooosssshhhh...how i wish to join them..
missing the old time having fun around with my friend in that choir although sometimes it was a hard time..
we have tears, sweat and laughters all along the practice...
sweet memories i could say..
lolz
anyway..got to drop off..
having my french test soon~~

A bientot!!